Showing Up, Standing Tall: Fatherhood Lessons

At GSE Law, the practice of law is more than just a profession; it’s a lifelong calling shaped by character, commitment, and the values we carry with us. This Father’s Day, we’re honoring the men of GSE Law who wear two important hats: lawyer and dad. They’re used to leading cases and mentoring associates, but ask any of them, and they’ll tell you: nothing compares to the joy and responsibility of being a father.

As they were sons first before they became dads,  we asked them to reflect on the fathers who raised them and the lessons, both subtle and striking, that continue to shape how they lead, love, and live today.

RAUL GERODIAS (Founding Partner | Father of 3)
 “My father believed that knowledge is power, and his depth of knowledge was truly compelling. His authority came not just from presence, but from deep understanding. I’ve inherited his thirst for information, and it has anchored my leadership both at home and in the firm. Whether in charting a clear course for my family and team, inspiring others to bring their best, or navigating growth and change together, I’ve seen firsthand the enduring value of informed leadership.

He also believed I’d become a good lawyer, long before I did. I resisted at first, but in time, I saw and I was moved, not by pressure, but by the quiet strength of his conviction. He never forced me; he simply believed in me, even when I didn’t.”

TOBY ESTRELLA (Founding Partner | Father of 3)
 “My father taught me that no level of busyness is an excuse to be absent from your children’s lives. He was a man of presence: deliberate, involved, and full of faith.  I also learned the values of honor and respect for family and others. It’s embedded in the capacity to relate and interact and the willingness to serve. One rule he had? I could only drink with him after college. It wasn’t about alcohol; it was about doing things at the right time. He was teaching me responsibility. I see it now.”

JOEY RAMOS (Senior Partner | Father of 3)
 “From my father, I learned the value of order, literally. He always placed things where they belonged, and it made life smoother. It might sound trivial, but this habit of clarity and structure keeps both my home and work life running well. It has made my life easier!”

MIKE ACABAN (Senior Partner | Father of 2)
 “My father used to tell me: work hard, but don’t live to impress others. I didn’t get it back then, but I do now. His words remind me to prioritize what truly matters: my family and living authentically.”

BERT HERNANE (Partner | Father of 1)
 “My dad never needed to lecture. His example spoke louder. Industrious, humble, and steady, he showed me that real leadership doesn’t need to shout. He also had this simple piece of advice: ‘Just be nice.’ As a kid, I dismissed it. Now, I see the wisdom in it. Kindness isn’t weakness; it was about being the bigger person, choosing kindness even when it’s not easy; that you have the power to peacefully walk away from people who do not share your values.”

KRIS IRANZO (Partner | Father of 2)
 “My dad was an OFW, but whenever he was home, he taught me to drive and, more importantly, to be brave in front of my kids.  I learned that it’s important to show courage to your kids in everything, even if I am scared of some things. It builds confidence on their part and tells them that they can rely on me for things that are challenging or scary for them. That’s something I picked up from him. The skills and discipline I have now all came from him.”

CARLO GLORIA (Junior Partner | Father of 1, with another on the way)
“When I was young, my dad was always busy with work. But somehow, one way or another, he would always be there and be involved in important events/milestones in my life. What I learned from my dad was that when it comes to parenting, what matters most is showing up for your child, whatever the circumstance. In those times that my dad was with me growing up, I don’t particularly remember what we were doing. But I can always remember that he was there with me every step of the way, which is what counts the most.”

“TORC” TORCUATOR (Senior Associate | Father of 1)
 “My father showed me that slow and steady wins the race. That mindset helps me to focus on my health. Maintaining good health ensures I can take care of my family, give my best at work, and develop myself professionally and personally for many years to come.”

This Father’s Day, we celebrate the wisdom passed down from one generation to the next.From discipline to presence, resilience to kindness, the fathers of GSE Law embody a powerful truth: the best lessons aren’t always taught; they’re lived.

To all the dads out there, thank you for showing up, standing tall, and shaping the next generation with heart, humility, and strength.

Happy Father’s Day from all of us at GSE Law.